Creating Sufficiency & Safety

Hello! I’m hearing more about creating safety and sufficiency within myself so I don’t feel needy or desperate for business (which can unintentionally repel people). Could this concept be explained more in-depth? How do I not rely on external factors to feel like I’m growing and that I’m safe? Safety as in social rejection. Sufficiency as in being dependent on more people working with me to increase my income and therefore quality of life.