Alcohol boundary in home

Hi Brooke,
Our adult sons will be here for the holidays. One drinks too much (my thought.) How would you/do you/would you not address this ahead of time if your kids were of age? Or just love him as he is. He is not an angry or sloppy drunk.

My husband does not drink alcohol and I am a one or two max (drink plan) gal.

Thanks, Ann

p.s. our other son, whom you coached me around a long time ago, quit alcohol, with no lobbying from us, last year. His thought process was eerily similar to the Stop Overdrinking one, which I had not shared-except possibly psychically. 🙂 Modeling? 32 year old growth and development? Who cares why. 🙂