Earning an Income Model Help

Hi, I’ve been divorced for four years and I have a problem putting myself out there and working after 14 years of being a stay at home mom. My ex-husband’s healthy income as well as my current partner’s income have been my enablers. But deep inside I know I want to be independent. Please let me know if I can improve this model. Thank you!

Unintentional Model
C: Earning an Income
T: Working is no longer an option
F: Desperate
A: I go in circles, I think about possible jobs, but do not commit to one
R: Iā€™m an underearner

Intentional Model
C: Earning an Income
T: I want to be independent
F: Optimistic
A: I focus on tasks, I set goals, I plan my business, I put myself out there.
R: I get paying customers