Have we cracked the code…?

So, in the many discussions my husband and I have had, since I’ve learned the model.. we are starting to realize that most of our human miscommunications are just random thoughts, we may or may not believe, and haven’t had time to think about. And so, we say things we don’t mean, and people hear it so differently than we intend. And if we’d get our minds straightened out, then kept tidy daily.. those random “hurtful, mysogynistic, racist, stupid, whatever…” thoughts wouldn’t slip out our mouths. And we’d have far less miscommunications in the world. Is that all it is?? (haha.. as if)