***having a baby or not…***KM

Hi Brooke,

We have decided with my husband that we will have a family and a baby ( I always have seen my self surrounded by a family) however now that we are getting close to the time I am getting very scared and I am reconsidering the whole idea…

C: having a baby
T : having babies / family will shift the focus to taking care of me to someone else. I won’t be able to be my first priority.
F: scared
A: Panic and change my mind
R: Childless

C having babies
T Babies are very expensive. If we have a baby a lot of our savings and leisure money will go on the baby
F scared
A question the decision of having a baby
R not having babies

Please advice.