I want to help a friend who is poorly

I have a close friend who is having to have a major operation. They have found a mass and think it’s benign, however her family history is of a similar illness which has proved to be fatal. I want to be able to help through whether it’s good or bad news. We are both massive Brooke fans and take massive inspiration from you. Please could you give me some guidance to have a positive visit with her on Monday to help get through the tests and subsequent surgery. Thank you.