Model on home decor

C: I texted link to futon to A. A replied “futons are uncomfortable”
T: If he doesn’t like what I like, I’m not going to get what I want
F: Resentful
A: Send him other things with the expectation he won’t like it. Complain/sarcastic remarks that he never likes what I like. Tell myself that our apartment is HIS apartment because I didn’t decorate it to my liking. DEFER on decor decisions.
R: I don’t make sure I get what I want