My husband

My husband is detail oriented and comments on everything. The traffic, the way the city planned the lights, the bags in my trunk, the tickets I’m not ready to purchase yet, the basketball sign ups, the kids’ haircuts, everything…. you get the idea. I stay calm and just answer his questions about things 90% of the time. I’m working on staying zen more often. But sometimes, I lose it and yell, “You are going to give yourself a heart attack! Just relax and smell the roses. I’ve got this.”
But really it’s me that is going to have a heart attack. I’m drowning in his details. I handle things on my own time and I am efficient and wise with my decisions. I want him to change but I know I must change myself.
Coach me please!