Sex In Marriage

My husband and I have had lots of conversations during which I’ve told him what I need during sex and how much it means to me. Yet, he still doesn’t do the things I’ve talked about that are pretty simple and would be so easy and make such a big difference. He has a lot of fear around sex and I have always been the higher desire partner. I used to love sex so much, and now I feel like I don’t even want it anymore because it’s not enjoyable or comfortable. I’ve done a few models on it, but I feel so consumed with emotion it’s almost hard to write. I’m having a hard time understanding how my results are evidence for my thought in this situation. C – Husband’s actions during sex
T – He only cares about himself
F – Resentment
A – Shut down, Don’t have sex with him
R – We don’t have sex