Comparison Trap

Recently, a person in my network marketing company hit a huge goal. My brain went from “wow! So cool! Good for her!” I was genuinely excited for her. Two minutes later, “hmmm. I don’t get it. Why is she so ahead of me? I don’t think she is anything special, (I meant not in a mean way… more of a curious way if that makes sense) Why can’t I get my shit together and hit the same goals?”

Unfortunately, this brain debate happens often for me as it’s easy to see others achievements as many of us use Instagram to build our business. Because my act is “similar” it shows in my feed daily by the IG algorithm.

How can I get rid of this indulgent pity-party emotion? I feel like I’m self-sabotaging. But I keep going back to “why her and not me?!?”