Disgusted by a family member on govt handouts


My brother’s partner and her family are not exactly killing it in the money department and are AOK with govt handouts. We were immigrants on 3 separate occasions and never did my parents rely on handouts and taught us to be self sufficient. I am appalled that that energy is in my family. I realize I have to sit with it but I don’t know how to turn the thought around.

Thanks
Lucie