Economic responsibility part 2

I understand what you say about me believing that I depend on another person to provide money and not just on my value. I really understand and see that I have value and that I can bring value intrinsically and have been for the longest time. I am fully aware that I have value and have a lot to help others but somehow the only way I have money is from my husband or my family but not from the value I have brought to people or at least not enough to live on well. I have learned to master my mind, keep going and provide value for others, but I feel that there is something missing still. I keep sharing my value but only get to continue because of my husband and my family, not because of my value (unless I’m not expressing well enough or getting it out there enough)