In other people’s models when I say "I am a Life Coach"


I need some help with my intentional model please.  I am not finding the thought that produces the feeling I want.

C say the words “I am a Life Coach”
T She thinks I look too young to be a life coach. She thinks coaching is a scam and not useful
F insufficient
A step out of the present moment. become a weirdo in conversation
R Not be myself. I don’t show up as the Life Coach I am and am becoming

C say the words “I am a Life Coach”
T
F certainty
A enjoy more conversation with this person
R Stay present. Be the Life Coach I am.