Judgments


I would love clearing out some of the thoughts that I have about people reaching out to me on LinkedIn. Whenever a guy from my country messages me, they always say stuff about my business that I don’t like.

Here are some of the thoughts that I have about all of this:

Connecting Requests – whom to accept whom to ignore
My thoughts:
These people won’t buy.
They are time wasters.
I don’t want to make a list of people on my network who clearly don’t want to buy from me.
Yeah they only want to flirt.
I don’t want to have a huge following of people who really don’t want to buy from me.
They don’t buy. They just waste time.

I notice that mostly men reach out to have friendly conversation with me but don’t ever want to really do business with me. Not everyone but mostly. I have 200 pending requests on LinkedIn and all of them are male people.

Some people might really want to work with me and some people really don’t. How do I really know if they want to work with me or just want to be friends?

I would rather keep my connection list small with people who are my ideal client rather than adding bunch of people who really don’t want to buy from me.

I know I am being judgmental about all of this but recently I had a conversation with a guy who said stuff to me on dm and I am assuming most male people from my country will end up like him.