Name or alias?

This month my project is to get my blog up and running while I’m waiting for coach training. I was thinking i woukd use my name as my website url like Jody & Katrina, but i have recently chenged my niche to one that resonates far more for me—coaching women whose husbands have been sober for at least two years who are struggling in theur marriage but want to STAY married. BUT using my actual first and last name means that my husband has the potential to lose his anonymity since my business will be internet-based. Under these circumstances, does it make sense to use a variation of my name—like using my middle name as my last name—for my business? Thoughts??