What the hell am I doing wrong?

I have been actively working on money beliefs within my business (and of course, open to receiving money elsewhere as well) for over 2 years now. I really started shifting my limiting beliefs in early 2018. I swear I believe ALL THE THINGS good with money. I know there is limitless abundance available to me. I know money doesn’t have to mean working non-stop or picking up extra hours. I believe I’m worthy of receiving, I know my wealth doesn’t take from someone else’s wealth.

I even cringe when I hear people say things like:
“There is more month than there is money.”
“Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
“Must be nice for Chuck to not be in debt but he’s rare.”

Etc etc etc.
Sooooooo, why isn’t my R matching my T?! What could this mean if I really, truly believe I can and am capable of earning a shit ton of money….. but my bank account is still like….”mmmm nahhhhh, you’re not.”

Any suggestions for me? What am I doing wrong ? I know our new thoughts and beliefs take time but it’s been 2 years ! Ugh.