Constraint versus Balance

I am so excited to be here!!!
I was watching a Diamond Call (August 19) and two people were asking about balance, having all the thing they wanted. Brooke taught that you can have it all: money AND relationships AND fun.
I agree! And I want so many things, and I am grateful for having so many of them already.
I am having trouble with constraint.
I feel that there are so many things that I need to change: mindset around money, loose weight, enjoy all the Scholar materials that I haven’t been able to work with during the first year.
How can I reconcile these two concepts?

Thank you very much for your help!!!!!