Follow up on self pity and awareness question

I am working on finding thoughts that serve me and the family members I am caring for so I show up ready, loving and full of grace. I realize that this is all happening for me. I am a nurse and want to start a blog to help middle aged moms who are caring for their families and parents at the same time. However, I keep coming back to this theme of compassion fatigue. There are a lot of articles out there on this topic but I see this idea does not serve me. It perpetuates my feeling of being worn out. I want to help giude others on tips and tricks to see the blessings of caregiving, while respecting how challenging it really can be while atill moving forward. I am not sure I am totally there yet. Looking for thoughts to serve me and move me forward away from compassion fatigue.