Friday follow up

I’ve been refreshing the browser waiting for your reply-and wala! Thank you!😊 Ok-so question-you said:

I love that we can choose love, because it feels best to us, and still choose not to engage too much or even like the other person. We do it for us.”

How can there really be full Love if I am choosing not to engage? My reasons are that I don’t like her. On one level I’m fine w that-and on a deeper level-i’d like to challenge myself to feel real peace and get past any thoughts that are negative (enough to cause feelings other than love.)Thank you!😊