Hi there,

My boyfriend has 2 brothers who are really close to each other, and he’s fine with it.

But I somehow want him to also be that close or to be really good friends.

I don’t know why.

The two brothers are making plans to visit their cousin. I feel sad and left out for my boyfriend. I noticed I have that a lot.

On the one side, I feel sad for him, and on the other side, I would find that cool and attractive if he would have a close relationship with them. And because of that, I try to control him. Trying to force him to do more things with them.

I think I have a general issue of feeling left out or jealous when people have a really close connection/friendship. Especially when they are a big group.