Settling


I have a question when it comes to settling. Women will mostly settle when it comes to relationships but also with many other things in life.

I believe settling would be in the A line and would come from a feeling like “resigned” or “comfortable” where taking some action would be challenging.

It could come from a belief that this is all you deserve or that this is as good as it gets.

I understand that our brains like sameness so settling for certain things like being in a job you don’t love or a relationship you don’t love is less challenging than the unknown of getting a different job or a new relationship…is there more to it?