Hi Brooke 🙂
My husband and I are trying to have a baby and there’s one catch – we don’t have a great sex life to start with so this is amplifying that. I’m at a bit of a loss but working on the model still:

C My husband says no to me for sex around three times a week
T He isn’t attracted to me, we will never have a baby
F Rejection, disappointment
A Stop asking him at all sometimes, or talk to him about it and he tells me I’m pressuring him and it turns him off
R No sex!

New model
C My husband says no to me for sex around three times a week
T I’m going to work harder on our intimacy
F Commitment, anticipation
A …Come on to him rather than ask him for sex? Try for more intimacy in cuddles, kisses, conversations.
R TBC!

This new model is a tough one for me so would love your thoughts.