I am having some trouble thinking about how to have an abundance mindset and NOT overspend…

C: I have plenty of money
T: I have plenty of money. I should spend it.
F: worried my kids will be entitled
A: act frugally
R:

C: I have plenty of money
T: I want to live below my means so my kids can remain humble, modest/ not entitled
F: calm, worried that I am having a scarcity mindset
A: act frugally but try not to
R:

C: I have plenty of money
T: I should give my money to charity and be responsible with the money that was earned with a lot of hard work
F:
A:
R:

C: I have plenty of money that I could spend
T: I choose not to spend/ waste it frivolously. I choose to invest and donate
F: proud to be a modest/ humble member of society
A: donate money and raise socially responsible kids
R: my kids make some sort of impact in the world.

HELP!?