I am telling myself a story that not everyone is chipping in and helping with the work load, and only a few are doing what they are supposed to do.

C: sarah is in charge
T: she doesn’t hold people accountable
F: unfair
A: dislike sarah, judge sarah, check the board frequently, obsess over what others are doing or not doing
R: I’m not focusing on my own accountability

How can I get to a place where I don’t have manuals for others and truly believe everyone is doing their best, or just stay focused on myself?