Hello,
How can you use the model if you are reflecting on an action that you supposedly took but were not even aware of? My husband told me that I did something numerous times that made him feel excluded. I have no recollection of ever doing it so I can’t even reflect on what feeling or thought would have caused me to take that action, if for me that action was essentially non-existent. I don’t know what my unintentional model would be in that case.