I have an amazing job offer – part time – and I’m worried I’m being a pain in the ass and will lose the offer as I’m asking for a few things and made a fumble or two.  I know I can’t control other people’s thoughts or actions, but isn’t it possible that my actions could be a pain in the ass and cause them to think I’m a pain in the ass and then remove the offer? Is it at all possible our actions matter?