Allow them to be who they’re meant to be


I’m confused about this one.
“Allow them to be who they’re meant to be.
So who are they, what do they do etc … If you aren’t trying to control or interfere, who are they in their actions?”

Are we talking about our perception of who they’re meant to be, or taking a step back and seeing them for who they are in their actions?
Thanks! Have a beautiful day (I know you will 🙂