Allowing someone to be wrong about me.

After an encounter yesterday I have been untangling my thought, feelings and the actual circumstances. During a thought download this morning I realized the thought that helps the most is, “I can allow her to be wrong about me.”
While it fits perfectly into my model…it doesn’t feel good.
I want to argue, buffer, and replay the conversation in my head.
I know I’ve heard Brooke say many times ‘I can allow someone to be wrong about me.’…but until right now, it was only a sentence I was hearing.
The desire to ‘correct’ the ‘wrong’ is STRONG! The vibrations in my body are also.
Is there a podcast or area inside scholars where I could study this? Or questions I could do some super-thinking around?