Because I want it

I recently listened to Brooke’s recent brilliant podcast on doing things because we want them and not feeling we need to justify our decisions to anyone. The thing I can’t quite reconcile is the part on making decisions with intentionality and liking our reasons for that, bringing clarity to ourselves as part of the process. I totally hear that we don’t have to justify ourselves to the world, but if you will take a decision that affects someone else (say if you leave your significant other) should you not explain / justify it to them as you have done to yourself, as part of a compassionate and loving approach ?