Hi Brooke,
I am excited to start and nervous and scared and wondering if I’m going to follow through…I’m not so good with that…consistency really which is probably why I’m not where I want to be in my life, career, personal development etc. Anyway, I have several questions. I’m not sure that the questions are supposed to be in “novel format,” because this is going to be pretty long, but here it goes. I know you have said at the beginning to focus on one thing-weight loss, career, overdrinking, etc. I’m struggling to narrow that down because I know I have to work on my overeating. I am most definitely an emotional eater and I know I have to get that under wraps because this process is undoubtedly going to unearth all sorts of heavy stuff that I am going to want to eat my way through. See, but not I’m not overweight, but not at my ideal weight either-because I overeat and have struggled to reach my ideal weight since the birth of second child 8 years ago. So, I know emotional eating definitely needs my attention. The struggle comes in because even as I write this I’m thinking about how it’s going to be perceived. Is Brooke going to think I sound dumb, am I going to be cast to the back of the class because I don’t sound as intelligent as some of the other students I’m sure she’s going to have, should I even bother writing this question to begin with, etc.?? Even though I don’t know exactly what I am describing in the last few sentences (self-conscious, low self-esteem??) I KNOW it’s a major problem that I have allowed to hold me back for the better part of adult life now. I try to think back to when that shifted because I was not always like that. I used to be very outgoing, would sit and eat lunch with anyone, anytime-now the thought of that drains me and makes me dread the inevitable awkwardness that would accompany eating with people I barely knew. I hold back a lot now, especially in my professional life, well also in my personal life now that I think about it, because of fear of criticism or not being liked. I feel like this has take over my life and rules it. Like I said before, I haven’t always been like this and I think knowing that is the hardest part sometimes. I thought as I got older I would be more confident and the opposite has seemed to occur. Anyway, I hope you can pull the questions I was trying to ask out of there. Please let me know if you need clarification in order to be able to answer. Also, I signed up late January and have not received my box yet. Once I receive it, am I to just start on that day’s worth of materials? I apologize for the rambling, run-on sentences…I just wanted to get all my thoughts out. This turned out be more of a thought download…I’m sure you’ll be able to appreciate that! Thank you!
Got an idea for us at Scholars? Tell Us Here
Looking for private coaching? Schedule your coaching session now
Copyright 2022 – The Life Coach School – All Rights Reserved | Terms | Privacy Policy