Black business will not do as well

This week I’ve been around my in-laws and they have strong views about my race, as follows:

(1) black people don’t help each other
(2) ‘we’ need to keep a good job
(3) your business isn’t going to be as successful as a white business

On the inside I find myself cringing and saying internally ‘I don’t believe that,’ but then I also feel nervous and anxious.

So help me sort my thoughts from THERE and move from feeling like they’re toxic. I don’t want to believe that about them.
I want to accept them AND believe that as a black woman I can have a very successful coaching practice. In fact I already do.