If someone is in your space and home and not having respect for it, that could be a boundary violation. But what if it’s your spouse? If he agrees to help with the house and doesn’t, it seems like someone isn’t respecting the home I live in. I have a thought that I’d like to set a boundary if he doesn’t follow through. I know I can’t ask him to behave a certain way so if he doesn’t follow through with the action, I would like to take the action of hiring out the things that need to get done. Is this a boundary kind of thing or am I just making plans to handle this without resentment?