boyfriend’s stress


I’m looking for feedback on the following model:

C – boyfriend has a job
T – I don’t know if I want to be with him if he can’t figure out how to manage his stress about his job.
F – on edge
A – wonder if he will ever change, get mad that he hasn’t tried coaching or gotten a different job like he talks about all the time, feel stuck because I don’t know if he will change and when it has been long enough for him to try to change, think it’s a problem for me if he is stressed about his job, want him to change because I did, fail to notice that I still feel stressed sometimes even with coaching or think that my stress is more valid, I’m stressed about him being stressed
R – I don’t manage my stress about his stress and I’m not present with him now/leaving him now.