Digging into my story this month I was surprised to discover the thought that I’m broken. I believe I can do many things, but I don’t believe I can be happy, even with everything I know about the model. I know we expect 50/50 but I don’t get close. I look to the past and have all this evidence of trying to feel better and failing. I know the result of my belief is that I’ll keep not being happy. I feel shame about this, that something wrong with me that I can’t be happy. But it seems true. Can you help me see an alternate way of looking at this?