Brother in law JF

C: JF is living with a new woman
T: he is self centered
F: disgust
A: look for similarities in my husband
Shut down around sex
Ruminate about how he uses people
Worry about his kids who don’t see him
Worry about him getting dumped and back depressed and sucking off my husband and mother in law
R: Pushing away my husband mother in law and JF