Can a feeling be a result??

C – Borrowed $40 from brother
T- My husband couldn’t provide the needed $
F- humiliated
A- accepted the $
R- resentful

Intellectually, I understand that I placed all financial responsibility to my husband.and I am working on changing my thoughts – though not sure how that model would look like – at least something believable. It has been an ingrained belief that my job is to raise the kids and his job is to make the $. So my thoughts around the borrowed $ can be grateful that family helped out and accepted the $ but that doesn’t help my feelings of resentment towards my husband.

Any and all suggestions are welcome:)