Can self-pity be a reaction in the A line of a model?


After my tutoring session, I realized I was jumping models and was recommended to do a model on my feeling of guilt. Can self-pity be a reaction to my guilt? Or is that a completely different model with self-pity as the F line? Are both unintentional models correct? Sometimes I get stuck on the action line vs the result, can a new feeling be my new result?

UNINTENTIONAL MODEL:

C- Canceled Birthday Plans due to family emergency
T- It’s inappropriate to be so concerned with my personal plans during this time
F- Guilt
A- Self-pity
R- Can’t be 100% present for others during this difficult time, thinking about my birthday

C- Canceled Birthday Plans due to family emergency
T- I can’t focus on my happy event during a difficult family time
F- Self-pity
A- Passive aggressive
R- Draw attention to myself about why I’m unhappy

INTENTIONAL MODEL

C- Canceled Birthday Plans due to family emergency
T- I’m fortunate to have my birthday during this family emergency because it’s a glimmer of happiness for me amongst the sadness and sorrow
F- sympathetic
A- Be present for others but also be present for myself and acknowledge my feelings
R- I want to be emotionally supportive of others during this difficult time but also want to rejoice in my own thoughts around my birthday