My husband told me tonight that he doesn’t like the person I am becoming after joining scholars. He thinks I am a completely different person and feels disconnected from me. Also, he strongly opposes learning about the model despite seeing how happy this knowledge has made me. I feel like I’ve changed in a good way and I certainly don’t feel disconnected from him. So, why is my result (husband feels disconnected) so different from my thoughts (we have a strong relationship)? Can someone else’s model affect your results?