I wanted to acknowledge Candice’s masterful coaching of (Allison?) yesterday. I, for many years, struggled with “that thing my father married.” My road to acceptance was long and hard, but I made it. I finally decided that my father and I were totally separate from his marriage to her and I gave up trying to figure out why he married her.

I wish Scholars existed back then! – it would have drastically shortened my time in sorrow and anger.