Can’t Stop

I keep flirting (text message only) with guys that are not into that and do no flirt back.
I tried to use the model:
C- A guy I want to flirt with.
T – Maybe he’ll flirt back (though he never did before, and I tried more than once)
F – Excitement, longing.
A – Text something flirty.
R – frustration, embarrassment.

I tried writing an intentional model, but couldn’t find a THOUGHT I’d believe.

I don’t want to do it anymore.

Thank you