Cant’t get past “content” LB

My impossible goal is to create a community of friends outside of work. In all of my intentional thought models this month, I can’t get past feelings of content, acceptance, peaceful. It seems it would be more helpful to feel motivated, confident, excited. Am I just picking the wrong thoughts? Also, is it possible for a result to be a feeling? I am not sure I’m putting these models together correctly.
Here is an example –
C – live on my own
T – I feel lonely
F – sad
A – inaction, stay home
R – stay feeling lonely

C – live on my own
T – I have family and friends from work nearby
F – content
A – reach out to them if I want to
R – feel like I have a support system

Thanks for your help!