Challenge with R line


I find it challenging to get to the R line, can you please help?

C: Head speaking in meeting
T: I cannot be a leader
F: sad
A: ruminate, maybe I should focus on this, blaming my past schools for not inculcating leadership, victim mentality, predicting that I won’t become a good leader, doubting if I want to be a leader
R: I am reiterating I am not a leader

C: same
T: I am getting intimidated and that is ok
F: calm
A: listen intently, contribute as needed, shoulders high
R: I am ok as myself

C: same
T: I am a leader in my own way
F: confidence
A: listen intently, contribute as needed
R: I create reassurance as a leader