I would like your coaching on this model. It might be useful for others. I started this model with Chaos in the Results line.
Chaos was a constant when I was a child and someone was always getting hurt as a result. I believe this is where my desire to control comes from. We all lived in fear of our father then including my mother, no matter the circumstance.

Here is the model:
C doesn’t matter
T (chaos results in) someone getting hurt
F anxiety or fear
A perfectionism (creating chaos)
R someone gets hurt

Here is the alternative model:
C (it doesn’t matter)
T no one will get hurt – the past is over
F calm
A everything is fine, let it go
R no chaos