Chicken or egg?

I’ve been immersing myself in the Unconditional Love and Love 2.0 podcasts. So good, but I feel like I’ve heard you say it both ways—-what comes first, loving yourself unconditionally or loving others unconditionally? I was thinking working on my own self love would improve my relationships but you also seem to suggest that we should practice loving others unconditionally and then we will be able to love ourselves.

Or maybe you think one approach is better depending on the person?