Choosing clothes

I’ve gone for many years wearing cheap, old, baggy clothes that I don’t like, are not flattering and don’t help me to feel confident at work (or anywhere else).  I haven’t felt that I deserved anything else, and now I’d like to change that pattern.  I’ve done a couple of models, could you please help with the gaps?  Thank you!

Unintentional Model
C: ?
T: I need to be invisible
F: unworthy
A: keep wearing worn-out, unflattering clothes
R: ?

Intentional Model
C: ?
T: I am learning to look my best
F: curious
A: try different styles of clothes to see what works for me (?)
R: enjoy wearing the right clothes for me (?)