Christmas with family.

My husband and I have been willing to spend a Christmas just the five of us (us and our three children) for years but I always felt guilty and felt like I was letting grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins down. I realise now I am a people pleasing and worry about hurting people’s feelings (and mine!). Shall I do an intentional model with in the R line – tell family about our Christmas plan in a loving way?!
Thank you very much.