We have 4 adult children living in other provinces and this year they will all be here with us the weekend before Christmas. Usually I love our gatherings but for some reason this year I am mostly looking forward to December 23rd when it will be just my husband and I and the cats ๐Ÿ™‚ I know that part of it is my belief that I need to make special meals and make it all lots of fun and special, in other words it is all up to me even though I know the kids donโ€™t think that. Iโ€™d like some help with thoughts that focus on being together and balancing what I do with just how I show up. Thanks a lot for any insights.