Cleaned up thoughts

I have been debating leaving my current work to work on my husband’s business and stay home with my children. I discovered my thoughts about my current work were really negative so I’ve cleaned them up and feel like I am truly making the best of it and could be happy here if I chose to stay.

How long would you recommend staying in a circumstance with your “new” thoughts before making a decision whether to leave or stay?

I know I can be happy either way, both decisions affect my children in both positive and negative ways. Do you have any other questions one can ask themself to decide which option to choose?