Confusing confidence with entitlement

I think I confuse feeling entitled with confidence. I can feel this blocking in my chest as soon as I want to tell a client, friend, or family member what I think is right and get super frustrated when they don’t listen.

I don’t want to feel this way when it comes to other people’s thoughts, feelings, and actions in the decisions they make for their life. I know rationally people have their process and I can’t control them but I need help with the result on this model.

C: Other people’s words and actions
T: They should really listen to me about this
F: Entitled
A: Act before thinking, communicate anxiously and not clearly, pushy in conversation, judgmental of others, and jumpy obsessive

I’d love some ideas on a bridge/intentional model to practice after understanding what the emotion entitlement does for me. Thank you!