Connection homework

I really don’t feel like i’ve ever had much of a connection in relationships, which I know is a thought, therefore maybe I need to look at this as just anyone I’ve ever had a relationship in general with, rather if I just think they are an acquaintance or boss or friend or husband or child? I’m specifically looking at this statement in our homework. “Pick one person with whom you had a significant and deep connection during your young adulthood.” I’ve always distanced myself from people and have never really opened up to people, which gives me the impression or thought that I’ve never had a deep connection with many people.